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Topic: Party Thread (Archive VII) |
Sheikh Gomelez
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Forum: Get to Know Each Other Posted: Mon Mar 12, 2007 3:19 pm Subject: Party Thread (Archive VII) |
Flauta-Flauta-Flauta-Flauta-Flautapantera
You come and go
You come and go
Loving would be easy
If your colours were like my dreams
Red, gold and green
Red, gold and green |
Topic: I'm still pissed..but I like you guys. (NO, not you) |
Sheikh Gomelez
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Forum: Get to Know Each Other Posted: Mon Mar 12, 2007 3:12 pm Subject: I'm still pissed..but I like you guys. (NO, not you) |
Okay.
To maintain the moral character of this thread, I have to post this.
http://www.podgallery.com/images/gallery/3098A.jpg
I love old paperback covers. |
Topic: I'm still pissed..but I like you guys. (NO, not you) |
Sheikh Gomelez
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Forum: Get to Know Each Other Posted: Mon Mar 12, 2007 2:54 pm Subject: I'm still pissed..but I like you guys. (NO, not you) |
*pouts*
No fair....
Hey, you know the story about the true sadist . . .
I do...! Marquis de Sade! Oh god...I'm sorry...I'm a total history geek...
Imagine if he and Leopold Ritter ... |
Topic: Would I be a doormat? |
Sheikh Gomelez
Replies: 45
Views: 16488
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Forum: Off the Cuff Posted: Mon Mar 12, 2007 2:35 pm Subject: Would I be a doormat? |
If she's worth two sh*ts as a friend, you'd be able to tell her to stop being a c*nt without her getting mad....it's her fault anyway. I'd say something like, "Listen, you stupid whore....flake o ... |
Topic: Would I be a doormat? |
Sheikh Gomelez
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Views: 16488
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Forum: Off the Cuff Posted: Mon Mar 12, 2007 2:05 pm Subject: Would I be a doormat? |
She doesn't know the non doormat person, she knew the super nice person...I was trying to ease her into it, lol.
In this situation, Kas, I recommend you dropkick her into the new paradigm. |
Topic: Would I be a doormat? |
Sheikh Gomelez
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Views: 16488
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Forum: Off the Cuff Posted: Mon Mar 12, 2007 1:43 pm Subject: Would I be a doormat? |
So...I should treat her like I do everyone else, lol.
Why play favorites? |
Topic: Would I be a doormat? |
Sheikh Gomelez
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Views: 16488
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Forum: Off the Cuff Posted: Mon Mar 12, 2007 1:41 pm Subject: Would I be a doormat? |
Kas - I've been thinking and here's another way you could go. The next time she calls up wanting to do something just say this verbatim
"I would love to - just be aware that if you stand me up ... |
Topic: Would I be a doormat? |
Sheikh Gomelez
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Views: 16488
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Forum: Off the Cuff Posted: Mon Mar 12, 2007 1:38 pm Subject: Would I be a doormat? |
It's just hard for me to turn my back on friends...see, that's a remnant of my doormat past I need to reckon with. I'm bold and blunt with everyone...except friends and such.
Friends and such somet ... |
Topic: Would I be a doormat? |
Sheikh Gomelez
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Views: 16488
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Forum: Off the Cuff Posted: Mon Mar 12, 2007 1:27 pm Subject: Would I be a doormat? |
I think he was agreeing more with the effort part.
Yes, he was.
If she still doesn't show up, just don't bother. The friendship isn't worth it if she isn't willing to make an effort. |
Topic: Would I be a doormat? |
Sheikh Gomelez
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Views: 16488
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Forum: Off the Cuff Posted: Mon Mar 12, 2007 1:09 pm Subject: Would I be a doormat? |
I'ld say call her a day or two before you are supposed to get together as a little 'friendly reminder.' If she still doesn't show up, just don't bother. The friendship isn't worth it if she isn't will ... |
Topic: What would you do? |
Sheikh Gomelez
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Forum: Off the Cuff Posted: Mon Mar 12, 2007 12:06 pm Subject: What would you do? |
And, the male pride reference was a dig at you, dear.
I figured as much. It didn't quite register as a dig, though. We men are thick-skinned and thick-skulled.
I don't agree that someone ... |
Topic: What would you do? |
Sheikh Gomelez
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Forum: Off the Cuff Posted: Mon Mar 12, 2007 11:44 am Subject: What would you do? |
Conflict is a necessary result of many decisions, to varying degrees...that doesn't mean you should avoid it.
Did I say that she should avoid it, or did I say that she should wait until a more oppo ... |
Topic: What would you do? |
Sheikh Gomelez
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Forum: Off the Cuff Posted: Mon Mar 12, 2007 11:39 am Subject: What would you do? |
We do know some dynamics...as Z pointed out.
Would those dynamics lead you to believe that escalation of conflict is possible?
I believe that, because they are already tense and feeling under sc ... |
Topic: What would you do? |
Sheikh Gomelez
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Forum: Off the Cuff Posted: Mon Mar 12, 2007 11:36 am Subject: What would you do? |
They would lead me to believe that taking the money could prevent children getting taken away and/or losing a home.
I'll repeat the question, and I'll rephrase my suggestion as another question.
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Topic: What would you do? |
Sheikh Gomelez
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Forum: Off the Cuff Posted: Mon Mar 12, 2007 11:31 am Subject: What would you do? |
We do know some dynamics...as Z pointed out.
Would those dynamics lead you to believe that escalation of conflict is possible? |
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